In
this project, we are telling the girl child to accept and face the reality of
life; to appreciate what they are and work towards bettering their own life. Some
of the campaign philosophies by the feminists that the world is a soft place or
the world should be made a free sail-through environment and easy-life zone for
the girl child are more of illusions, more theoretical, easy said than done and
not sustainable in real life especially our context.
We
are telling the girls to remain home and help their mothers do the weeding or use
the plentiful land, plant something and out of it something good can be
harvested. We are saying our young girls should accept to study where their parents
can afford instead of running away from the truth of life, taking refuge in
town as housemaids and roadside restaurant attendants in town suburbs, selling
themselves into slavery at that tender age. We are telling the girls who are following
the track of education to stop sleeping and work hard if their dream of soft
and easy life must come true. The free 1.5 point of the affirmative action
cannot take them anywhere. If Law requires 20 points, work for it, If Medicine
needs 20, equally battle for it, or else you can chose to relax and see if the
1.5 will earn you a apace at the lecture rooms.
Read
hard, score excellently and don't waste time competing or struggling to equal
the boys, like you always misinterpret the meaning of equality. Compete with
the reality of the world; compete to meet the entry requirement for your dream
career, compete to find solutions to world problems, and compete to change the
world to make it a better place for your generation and the generations coming
after yours. Don’t study to pass like your brother, don’t let any man be your measuring
parameter such that where men have failed, you feel comfortable saying “if a
whole man can fail, who am i?” No! We are saying, rise to meet the demands of
the world not to do what men can do.
Here
at TTH, we are surrounded by a team of young ladies who did not bow down and worshiped ignorance; they did not accept to be hoodwinked; they vowed to take
the bull by its horn and now they are relevant women contributing perfectly in their
different professional areas in the cooperate world. A good number are now
family women, some are mothers and all of them are living a modest life earning
respect from their agreements, the young and old because they don't mix issues;
they do not contradict education and their gender roles as mothers-great
transmitters of life and sources of happiness in a family. They are here
CHARGED and ready to go out there, meet that young girl, Change Her Attitude,
and Revolutionize Girls Empowerment and Development (CHARGED). And this is what
the REACH 5K GIRLS PROJECT IS ALL ABOUT.